Couples Successfully Coaching Couples 

Background: Having learned and profited greatly from LTH training and from E-Communication and given that it is purely educational and can be learned and taught by anyone, we coached a couple who asked us to train them. Below is their feedback.  We have changed their names but will share that with those who might wish to verify their witness for purposes of making a decision for themselves.  [Peter Kim, Business Entrepreneur, and Sharon Kim, Sales and Marketing in Fashion and Sports Wear.] 

I think my husband would agree with me when I say that the Life Transforming Habits tools taught us by Sharon and Peter has been super helpful in our marriage.  We never felt like they would judge us in any way and have full trust that they have the best interest in mind for us.  [See The Five Rules for LTH Coaches on the Home Page]  If they weren't there to ask some tough questions, I think the same topics discussed alone would've caused misunderstandings and a fight.  Having them there as LTH Coaches really made us think deep within ourselves to think about our spouse instead of only ourselves.  We still have our moments in miscommunication but we have made big strides because we now understand each other's patterns and inner desires more.  Appreciating each other has also really strengthened us because we acknowledge each other's efforts in our marriage.  We are still working on the visions and values because we are still trying to align some of our thoughts.   [Wife, June 2016.]

I think my wife summed it up very well. I specifically want to touch on is the importance of E-Listening.  Listening in this new way taught in LTH has really opened my eyes in understanding one another. Sometimes we say things in anger or frustration. We usually don't mean it.   But it's hard to find the root of it all without first decoding this initial response. It has given me another valuable tool in understanding my partner and being aware of my own tendencies.  We always feel comfortable with Peter & Sharon. They are people who really want to share the wisdom that they have received from Life Transforming Habits.  I'm comforted that I can rely on them.  [Husband, June 2016.]
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E-Listening is a core component of E-Communication, which is integral to Life Transforming Habits

More on Peter and Sharon Kim: They have three children and live in southern California. Sharon is a certified LTH coach in both the i-Skills and t-Skills as well as in couple relationships. Peter is certified in couple relationships and finishing up his certification in the i-Skills and t-Skills.  [July 2016.]